Sometimes I find myself graceless. Like when I am asked to “give thanks” before a meal in public. Sometimes it’s a Christian gathering. Often it’s not. I don’t mind but maybe others do in a mixed crowd. They might be Hindu, Jewish, Muslim, atheist, or even agnostic. I don’t mind giving thanks, but how do I do this appropriately?
What’s worse is when someone else, say the agnostic is asked to do it and they say yes. It is not honouring at all to my faith to hear something insincere. I tried finding some “non-religious” grace or invocations to give thanks before a meal. There are some, but sometimes the traditional religion is just replaced with new age, which does not accomplish neutrality at all.
So I wrote these with the intent that anyone should feel comfortable using them. Just choose your favourite.
Please use them if you like. Change them if you like, Share them with others if you like. Don’t use them if you don’t like. The “amens” are optional.
Share these under the terms of the GPL. (www.gnu.org)
Download a PDF version of grace_for_the_graceless
1.
Our thanks we give for living well,
Our thanks for things that time will tell.
Our thanks for folks and food that will
By providence our needs fulfil.
(Amen.)
2.
In time of need our thankfulness
Is given here without distress
Despite our shortcomings and wants
We’re thankful for these flowing fonts.
(Amen.)
3.
While generosity abounds
From hands that made and from beyond
We thank all those from whom this came
And trust therein for more again.
(Amen.)
4.
Protection from the world surrounding
Is our desire and hope abounding
While others suffer and won’t heal
Here we are thankful for this meal.
(Amen.)
5.
Each one who needs or feels like giving,
Remember now how life may treat you.
Our hearts’ desire is for a sharing.
Each other and our food we cherish.
And so we hope and ask to witness
Our colleagues and our business flourish.
(Amen.)
6.
In sharing in this meal right now
Let us make a thankful bow
For things we have that we enjoy,
For hospitality employed,
For joining company that’s good
To benefit ourselves with food.
(Amen.)
7.
As we celebrate this time together
Pause we, thoughtful now, to just remember
Thankfulness for all that is so tender.
Hands and food and grace supply and render
Meals for us while we recline in splendour.
(Amen.)
8.
The blessings we receive each day
Do make our daily thankfulness.
Our source of all prosperity
Produces joy in us by this.
In spite of lack or lots by chance,
Fulfilled in any circumstance.
(Amen.)